Often times when we want to attract love into our lives all we can see is what we don't have. Usually when you are in this place of loneliness and heart hunger you are depleted and looking for something to refill your energetic cup. Unfortunately there is nothing more attractive than someone who is already fulfilled. Being in this empty place you inadvertently repel exactly what you are seeking. What do you have to offer in exchange for what you are looking for?
Don't despair! There are so many ways to fill your own energy cup and finally see what you seek. How do you generate what you are seeking? By filling your own cup with the resources you already have. You probably have a clear idea of what you want and if you don't now would be a good time to get clear. Make a list of all the qualities you are seeking in a partner and what that would bring to your life. Just making this list is very powerful. It is like giving your order out to the universe to be filled.
Now that you have this list, instead of focusing on how sad it is you don't have these things in your life look to see were you do have these things. Lets say you on your list you said you were looking for someone who is adventurous and loyal. Think about the people in your life who are adventurous and loyal. This is training your ability to perceive what you are looking for so that you can recognize it in others.
Take time to acknowledge the people who have this quality. Let them know that you see them as adventurous or loyal and that you are grateful for them because of it. People of similar quality will instinctively be drawn to someone who will recognize there gifts and appreciate them.
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